First Congregational Church of Cheshire
© the Rev. Dr. James Campbell
1 Thessalonians 3:9-13
How can we thank God enough for you in return for all the joy that we feel before our God because of you? Night and day, we pray most earnestly that we may see you face to face and restore whatever is lacking in your faith.
Now may our God and Father himself and our Lord Jesus direct our way to you. And may the Lord make you increase and abound in love for one another and for all, just as we abound in love for you. And may he so strengthen your hearts in holiness that you may be blameless before our God and Father at the coming of our Lord Jesus with all his saints.
It all started with a simple winterberry wreath. The wreath was very tasteful. Very reserved. Striking but not ostentatious against our dark blue front door. Oh… and we also had one of those small “trees in winter” with the tiny clear lights that we put on the front porch. That looked nice too. But then we realized that we had some outdoor lights. So, it only made sense to put those on a few bushes. But one or two bushes with lights, well, that just looked a little sad, like we weren’t trying very hard. And so, we added another string of lights. And then another. And another. Until we ran out… and so we ran to Lowe’s. Because when you start with outdoor lights, it can be hard to tell when enough is enough.
When we finally got the bushes in order, we noticed that the dogwood tree looked rather forlorn by comparison. But lo and behold, we had some of those gigantic Christmas ornaments that we could tie to the branches. And so, we did. But there were not enough of them. And so, we bought some more. And then some more.
Then Marcos, who is very creative, decided that our outdoor lawn lamp post would look much better with some lights of its own. And he didn’t just wrap them around the pole. No, no, no. He strung those down to the ground in the shape of a Christmas tree.
Each year, it seems, Christmas at the Campbell-Martins house has become exponentially brighter and bigger and more festive. Of course, our house cannot compare to some of yours. We know that because we’ve seen them. Sometimes just for fun we get out the church directory and just drive around town to see what you’re up to.
Now I say all of this as a way of coming clean… because I spent many-a-year gleefully playing the role of The Grinch Who Stole Christmas. I would squawk and complain and criticize all of the extravagance because I assumed that it always detracted from the reason for the season. And I suppose it can and it does. But I’ve also learned that it doesn’t have to. Because the capital “R” Reason for the Season taught us the blessings of plenty and abundance and feasting and dancing and rejoicing. Jesus taught us that sometimes in this world, more is actually more.
Our Scripture lesson today is taken from the first letter to the church at Thessalonica in modern day Greece. Scholars tell us that this letter is probably the very first epistle that St. Paul ever wrote to any of the early churches. The reason for his letter was that he was worried about the congregation there. He worried that they were overburdened and stressed.
So, just who were these early Christians? Well, this tiny congregation was made up mostly of day laborers who lived and worked in that busy port city. But it wasn’t just a port. Thessalonica was also a religious center - a city full of the Greek gods. There were temples and statues and holidays everywhere. And so, when these folks decided to follow Jesus, they were suddenly cut off all of those supports: from friends and families and holidays and traditions. And it was a lot for them to carry. And so, Paul worried about them.
Now, if I were their pastor, knowing how busy and complicated their lives were, I likely wouldn’t have asked them to do anything else. I likely would have told them to take care of themselves first. That’s how we do pastoral ministry in the modern-day America. We are very careful about asking you for too much of anything, which I suspect is likely a big part of the problem of a church in decline.
But Paul understood, perhaps better than I, that when it comes to the Gospel lived out in the world, more is more. And more is better. And more actually gets us the satisfaction that we crave.
And this is what he wrote to those overburdened, busy people: “May the Lord make you increase and abound in love for one another and for all, just as we abound in love for you. And may God so strengthen your hearts in holiness that you may be blameless before our God and Father at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ with all his saints.”
Increase in love for all. Abound in love for all. And if you do, then you will be blameless when Christ comes again.
During these weeks of Advent, we talk a lot about the coming of Christ. We speak of hearts that prepare him room. And we know it’s important, and so we try to squeeze it in to our overly busy lives. We might come to church more often. We might even come to the Wednesday evening Communion Services or the Quiet Christmas Service or to church on Christmas Eve. Or we might be more intentional in our prayers and Bible readings and quiet times. But, you might be thinking, that’s about all I can do, James, so please don’t ask me for anything more.
I’m tempted not to. I know how busy your lives are. I know how busy this time of year is. But friends, we’re talking about getting ready for Jesus. And according to Paul, there is only one way to do that. It’s increasing and abounding love! And I am not talking about some mawkish sentiment or some Hallmark movie-induced feeling – but love that changes lives; love that is spent and poured out into the world.
Paul actually described what that kind of love would look like, later on in the fifth chapter. And his advice is very practical and just as applicable in modern-day Cheshire as it was in ancient Thessalonica. This is what he wrote: Respect others; be at peace; admonish the idlers; encourage the faint hearted; help the weak; be patient with all; never repay evil for evil; always seek to do good; rejoice always; pray without ceasing; give thanks in all circumstances; don’t quench the spirit; listen to the words of prophets; test everything; abstain from evil; and hold fast to what is good.
In these times of uncertainty and distress, when the promises of peace on earth and good will to all can seem like a distant dream, there is only thing to do: you go and make peace. You go and spread good will. You go and increase and abound in love. Because of those things, more is always more.
For years now, I have used a little prayer book to anchor my own morning prayers. And those morning prayers always end with this benediction: “We go (now) in peace to love and serve the Lord, and to live our lives so that those for whom love is a stranger will find in us generous friends.”
We can do that. We can get ready for Jesus. Let's go!