First Congregational Church of Cheshire
© the Rev. Dr. James Campbell
Matthew 10:40-42
“Whoever welcomes you welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me. Whoever welcomes a prophet in the name of a prophet will receive a prophet’s reward; and whoever welcomes a righteous person in the name of a righteous person will receive the reward of the righteous; and whoever gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones in the name of a disciple—truly I tell you, none of these will lose their reward.”
America is a culture defined by superlatives and the language of advertising and consumerism. Thus, we are home to “The Happiest Place on Earth”. We manufacture “the King of Beers”. And who else could turn a simple circus into “The Greatest Show on Earth!”
We know how to sell anything and everything! We know how to convince people that what we have is far better than what they already have. And it works. That’s why I can walk into Costco for a bag of oranges and walk out twenty minutes later with $300 worth of stuff I didn’t even know I needed!
This language and culture of consumerism has also influenced and shaped the American church. Church is a very competitive business, as we struggle for our share of the market. And since we know that people often “shop” for a new church, we are obsessed with the merchandise we’re trying to move. And so, we worry that our programs and our worship and our music and our fellowship are not quite as shiny as that church down the street. And then, we fret and we worry, and we spin and we innovate, always looking for the next best thing, always looking be Number One.
I get it. We live in the real world of institutional decline. Religion in America has been on the wane for decades. And still there are bills to pay and buildings to maintain. And it can be scary. But as tempting as it is, I don’t think that they key to our success as a church is found on Madison Avenue. Because I don’t think how we define success and how Jesus defines success are always in alignment.
In the verses that precede today’s very short lesson, Jesus was preparing to send his disciples out into the world to preach the Gospel. But before he did, he gave them some practical advice about how to be church in the world. He said things like: “Travel lightly.” “Don’t expect everyone to like you or like what you’re doing,” “Don’t be surprised if you are misunderstood by everyone, including members of your family.” In other words, don’t expect to be popular - which, by the way, is what I think most American churches are still trying to do. We want everyone to like us.
But then Jesus turns his attention to something far more foundational. And while, at first, it sounds a bit esoteric, these words are about how God measures success. Jesus said: “Whoever welcomes you welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes the one who sent me.” “And whoever gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones in the name of a disciple – truly I tell you, none of these will lose their reward.”
Now lots of folks have heard the adage about a cup of cold water. It’s one of Jesus’s greatest hits. And because it is, because it’s so familiar, we don’t pay too much attention to the words that precede it, that actually tell us why that cup of cold water is so important.
“Whoever welcomes you, welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me, welcomes the one who sent me.”
Notice what Jesus does here in just a few words. He breaks down the constructs by which we have organized this world, and by which we understand our lives. We live in a hierarchical world. But Jesus, makes absolutely no distinction between himself and his disciples, or between himself and us, or between us and God. Listen again: “Whoever welcomes you, welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me, welcomes the one who sent me.” In other words, all of this is connected; all of us are connected. It’s God in me and God in you and you in God and the cosmos in all of us.
Now that’s shocking to some folks, and heresy to plenty of others, because the Western church has built most of its history on the idea that there is an absolute gulf of separation between God and us. And somehow the clergy and the church and the rules all help to bridge that gap.
But that’s not the only way to do theology. It’s just the theological argument that won. But other Christian theologies, like those of the Celtic church and Franciscans of the Roman church teach a much closer communion between God and us. These folks take the image of God in all humans very seriously. And thus they have no trouble reading these words literally: “Whoever welcomes you, welcomes me (literally), and whoever welcomes me, welcomes the one who sent me (literally).” Everything is connected. And therefore, the basis of all human sin is disconnection.
And if that is the truth; if we are all really connected like the waters of the ocean, then the smallest act of kindness literally ripples throughout the universe. And that means that a cup of cold water given to a thirsty person is a cup of water given directly to Jesus. And a cup of cold water withheld from a thirsty person is cup of water withheld from Jesus.
In a nationally broadcast sermon, the Rev. Dan De Leon, Senior Minister of the Friends Congregational Church in College Station, Texas, tells this story. He and some of his parishioners were on a mission trip to Mexico. While there, they met a man who had crossed the U.S. border illegally, only to be caught immediately and sent back. And here I quote Rev. DeLeon: “Penniless and humiliated, (the man) started over. He… took the horrendous journey again, and this time he made it into the United States where he found work. He worked ten-hour shifts with no breaks making less than minimum wage, never stopping even when he cut his hand open washing dishes... And since he couldn't speak English, he couldn't express his needs, let alone defend himself under harsh treatment. After three years of saving up a little money under these conditions, he went back home, where he met his now three-year-old daughter for the first time.”
Rev. De Leon continues, “At this point, I looked over at his wife. She was still knitting, still looking down; and then a tear rolled down her cheek, but she quickly wiped it away, as if it (were) an enemy to which she refused to succumb. Finally, a student in our (mission) group, moved by the man's testimony, asked, "How can we help? What can we do…?" And (the man) looked at us and said, "Just be nicer. Don't treat us like we're horrible. Be kind."[1]
Be kind. No matter your political opinion about immigration or anything else for that matter, be kind. Because kindness is not about agreement. And kindness is not about approval. And kindness is never toxic or weak. Instead, to be kind is to be strong. To be kind is to be conscious, awake, alive to God. To be kind is an outward expression of a human heart that has been truly converted.
Because how we treat others is exactly how we treat Jesus. And that cup of cold water we give to others, is the very water that washes us clean. And a church that practices kindness above all else is successful in the only way that matters.
Because“Whoever welcomes you, welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me, welcomes the one who sent me… and whoever gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones—truly I tell you, none of these will lose their reward.”
[1] “Hospitality: A Crucial Cup of Cold Water” – a sermon by the Rev. Dr. Dan De Leon, www.Day1.org, accessed on June 22, 2020.



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